Sex and Pain – do you like it rough?

May 24, 2012

Sex is one of the prime aspects of a human life cycle, and yet, it has intrigued man since ages. Man has been trying to decipher its secrets and unveil the mysteries attached with it since time immemorial. In fact, healthy existence of an adult human being depends a lot upon the happiness in his personal as well as in his sexual life to a very large extent. In the ancient ages, people used to follow the doctrines set by sages, philosophers and religious leaders for leading a happy and blissful life.

Sex is one of the very few instincts exhibited by man that has multiple facets. There are numerous postures and procedures that can be followed while indulging in sex. However, it should be remembered well that the type and method to be adapted while mating should be well agreed upon by both the partners who are indulging in the sexual act. This is because mutual consent and spontaneous response from both the partners is of absolute necessity in order to derive maximum pleasure and satisfaction out of the act of having sex. Tastes and preferences of both the partners is thus an aspect that cannot be ignored at any cost in a sadomasochist relationship.

The type and methodology in which the two people wish to unite actually depends a lot on their personal character trait and disposition. Since sex has much lasting effect on women as compared to men, it is the needs of the female counterpart that has to be paid special attention to, while indulging in sex. As far as the sort of sex that women decide to indulge in, is concerned, there are broadly two types: a soft, gentle and moderate approach and the rough and more painful one.

According to the surveys carried out regarding the topic worldwide, it has been found that there are substantial numbers of people who derive more pleasure while indulging in rough sex with the partner. On one hand, there are people, especially females who like to submit themselves before their partners to let them do according to their will, while on the other there are a few, who are more intent on taking the reins of the “game” in their own hands and hence control the same according to their will. Rough sex usually involves inflicting pain onto the physique of the other counterpart who is involving in sex. This may be either in the form of pulling of one’s hair, or, spanking, using slangs while having sex or even bondage sex. Whatever be the way of inflicting pain, it is usually advisable to the partners that excessive pain is not mated out to any one of them under any circumstances. If this aspect is not kept in mind, it may lead to minor or even major injuries (in some cases) and this will eventually lead to dissatisfaction or even anger in the mind of the victim. In case of the partners indulging in the act of biting, as a precursor to arousal of a strong feeling of lust prior to having sex, it should always be kept in mind that the bites should be rather mild and do not inflict excessive pain on the body under any condition. Apart from this, the vital and more sensitive arts of the body should be dealt with much greater care.

It is in fact always advisable that both the partners should be in their senses while indulging in rough sex and the sense of lust should not overshadow the sense of responsibility towards each other at any cost!

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