Some of us will know the scenario well;  you’re at a club or party, half-way through a scene that is so hot that you and your submissive are flying, when someone standing very close to the edge of your play-space starts talking in a loud voice about the outrageous price of butter, and the rise in interest rates at the bank. You and yours are struggling to maintain your momentum, and you’re itching to kill someone.

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BDSM Party Behaviour

Or maybe you’ve never been to a club or party because you’re not sure that all these perverts are going to be able to control themselves and keep their hot sweaty hands off you, or that you’re not going to be able to control yourself and will dive on the first bit of naked flesh you see.

Or perhaps you are interested in a play scene with someone, but don’t know how to make it happen, and end up going home that night cursing your lack of confidence. BDSM Public Etiquette and Behaviour at Fetish Parties.

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BDSM Public Etiquette

Fear not!  A workshop discussion on BDSM etiquette surely helped. A panel of people involved in organising various public BDSM events focused on the context of public play. The discussion took a look at some of the basic codes of conduct, how they’re applied, and what to do when they’re breached. BDSM Public Etiquette and Behavior at Fetish Parties. How to have a succesfull and respectful BDSM club night. 

Be respectful. Respect limits. Respect distance. Do not interrupt. Have fun!

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