Going to a BDSM Club night can be a wonderful way to find a kinky play partner, a sadist soulmate or a masochist slave to take home. Here are some examples of activities at fetish parties and BDSM club nights.

Instructional BDSM Demos

“Wacky Wax III” – Fancy a bit of wax play? Got a candle or tealight or two?

Leave them at home this month, because, in his own original style and with the worst jokes at any demo, Moist will take us through playing with hot wax – without candles! Using slow cookers and blow torches, buckets and brushes, Moist will make our gorgeously near naked demo bunnies feel like they are exhibits at Madame Tussauds.

In what promises to be a fast, furious, and chaotic half an hour with more than a few surprises promised, our mad March demo will certainly be causing a splash!

Photos provided by The Pain Files – Extreme BDSM

“Erotic Impact Play” – Probably the most common form of play in the BDSM repertoire, impact play is also the area of S&M that we most often take for granted. After all, if you can’t hit someone effectively, then what kind of Top or Dom are you?

But the truth is, hitting someone effectively requires great skill, and lots of practice. Because the key word is “effectively”. What effect are you intending to have, and are you using the right piece of equipment, in the right way, to achieve it?

In this month’s demo on Sunday 18th September, with the assistance of the lovely Miss Tara Red, I will emphasise the erotic side of impact play – how to hit people and turn them on, with an exploration of techniques with a variety of impact instruments including whips, canes, crops, floggers and, of course, hands!

Fetish Market Days

Over 30 traders selling outfits, footwear, toys, artwork and much more, where you can see and try before you buy.
Demo on the top floor at 1.30pm
Meet and Greet at 12.30pm in Reception
Restaurant and smoking garden. Changing room and cloakroom
The restaurant will be serving delicious Tapas!
Coffee and tea available at the ground floor bar
There is now a cash machine (fee charged) in reception
Dresscode – Anything but no genital nudity

BDSM Meet and Greet

If you are new (or it has been a long time since you visited), if you feel nervous or you would just like an introduction to the event, then please join us for the meet and greet service. We meet at 12:30, inside the entrance near the cloakroom. We will explain a bit about the event, take you on a guided tour and introduce you to a few stallholders & others along the way. If you miss the start of the tour, but want to join in at any time while we are on-route, please feel free. We will both have ID badges on and I will be carrying a cane with some bondage tape around the end. This is useful for me to point things out with or to dispense justice on the move to deserving and naughty subs.

The Meet and Greet usually lasts about 45 minutes, but times vary from month to month. We always make sure we are finished before 1:30 so that anyone who wishes to go to the Demo can do so.

More Bondage